Wearing collar as part of BDSM

In a BDSM context, a collar is a device of any material placed around the neck of the partner. submissive It is also a term used to show ownership of one partner by another. A person wearing a collar to symbolize their relationship with another is said to be collared. Some people conduct formal "collaring ceremonies," which are regarded as effectively solemnizing their relationship in a similar way as a marriage ceremony. The standard form of a collar is a black leather band around the neck and often has metal D-rings added to allow the attachment of a leash.

Collars may be used in role-playing games involving humiliation because they have connotations of control and pet-like status, especially when worn with a leash.

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A guy ties his slave while preparing for an extreme bondage sex. Eris is a gorgeous slave that love's to be fuck bondage (bondage involves people being tied up or otherwise restrained for pleasure. Bondage is usually, but not always, a sexual practice. The paraphilia of being sexually aroused by bondage is sometimes known as vincilagnia.) style.

Submissive orgasm control

Typically, The Dominant Will Give slow, Gentle And Steady Physical Stimulation To His Submissive's Clit Or Vaginal Area, The Gradual Stimilation Will Bring Your submissive To The Brink Of Almost Having An Orgasm, Then Start To Reduce The Stimulation, So That Your Submissive Does Not Actually Have An Orgasm, But Is Made To "Hold It. Wait A Few Moments For The Tension To Be Relaxed, For Your Submissive To Come Back From The Edge So To Speak. Then Repeat The Stimulation, After A Few Times of repeating This procedure, Your Submissives Need To Orgasm Shall Be Overwhelming.

By Carefully Varying The Intensity Of The Stimulation, The submissive Is The Kept In A High State Of Arousal. Kept In This Highly State Of Arousal For Even A Short Period Of Time Can Induce, An Euphoric State Of Pleasure. The Feeling Of Control Is Immense, Soon With Enough Familiarity You Will Be Able To Read Your Submissive's Responses To Get The Intensity And Timing Just Right. The prcoess Is Slow And Much Patience And Support is required, You Will Need To Monitor Your Submissive Closely For The Results You Are Hoping To Achieve.

Be Consistent In Your Training Keeping Your Submissive In The Highly Aroused State For Long Extended Periods Of Time Is Also Known As Orgasm Denial. The Submissive Is Repeatedly Teased To The Brink Of Orgasm, Causing Her Feelings Of Desperation For Relief. How Long You Wish To Deny Your Submissive Orgasm Release, Is Up To Each Individual Dominant, Some Will Prefer To Hear The Begging And Crying For Longer Periods Of Time.

For The Best Results Lock The Toy Box Or Use Restraints To Keep Your Submissive From Touching Herself, And Causing Herself To Orgasm. Remember She Orgasms At Your Command, She Has No Control On How Or When She May Be Allowed To Orgasm. She Has Given Up Her Right To Have An Orgasm, Your In Control. A Post Scene Punishment/Reward System May be Useful In Encouraging Your Submissive To Try Her Best To Reach Her Goal.

Not Stopping The Stimulation Forcing Your Submissive To Orgasm Many Times Over And Over Is Called "Forced Orgasms". It Is Common To Force Orgasms On Your Submissive, In Preparation For A Orgasm Denial Scene.

types of collars

Training Collar. This collar represents the second collar exchanged between a dominant and a submissive. This is offered by the dominant after they have engaged in a period of time where they have held extensive lifestyle conversations and explored each others sexual needs, desires, personalities, dreams, hopes and goals in order to see if they prove to be a good match enough to move into a relationship of a deeper commitment. Most enter a deeper emotional stage at this point and may begin to express true devotion, love, honour and mutual respect.

Formal Or Slave Collar. This is the representation of the final stage of commitment. It expresses the belief that the dominant and submissive share a genuine and growing desire to share in each others lives, perhaps the rest of their lives.

Collar Of Consideration. "The exploring stage" this collar is traditionally given at the very beginning of a potential relationship. This is expressing an interest in pursuing a relationship with a submissive beyond that of a casual acquaintance. The collar acts to openly declare to other dominant's that this submissive is "off-limits" and that honourable dominant's should not pursue this submissive in any manner.

Tied and true

Today was a fantastic day. Once my boi arrived, I proceeded to tie him to my bed. I was dressed for business. After some choice words and torturous moves I mounted his rock hard shaft. Moving up and down on it at the pace I desired. It felt so exquisite! I wanted to stop before making him cum. I had some shopping to do, so left him lying there to think about what just happened. It was wonderful to be out, dressed up, and with the lingering feel between my legs of how great he felt. When I came back home I couldn't wait to pick up where I left off. Straddling him again, I worked myself up and down on him and brought him to release. I only wish we lived together so I could take the time to torture him all day and into the night. Still have plenty of ideas to try out- and "so little time". I could get used to this. Oh yea...had to use my cane on his behind to take out my frustration at not having him available longer!!!

Great licking slave

Last night I had the most amazing time showing my boy exactly who's in charge. He had been trying my patience all week, as usual! It was time to tighten up the reigns. When he arrived at my place I had him go into the bedroom. I blindfolded him and had him hold out his hand. I gave him six of my best with the cane. I like the way he cowers in anticipation of the next strike and not knowing when it will land. After leaving some nice red marks, I had him come out to the living room. I had him take off his clothes so I could gaze on his nakedness and make him feel vulnerable. I had him kneel before me and give my feet some attention. After some kissing up and down my legs, I wanted him to take off my shoes and lick my toes. His tongue felt great! I wanted to feel his mouth on my pussy. I had him lift my dress and start to lick. The sensation was fantastic! I decided this was going to be awhile, so I had him hand me my magazine so I could look at it while he serviced me. He was working the area so vigorously with his tongue. I could scarcely contain my orgasm. I didn't want it to stop so quickly though, so I told him to slow down. I tried to keep my mind on the article but it was just too exquisite. I looked down at his head buried in my crotch. I was wetter than I had been in awhile. I moved my foot along between his legs as he continued to lick my pussy. My lips were on fire and I could feel myself being drawn over the edge. I felt him licking and sucking my clit and I could not hold back any longer. I moaned and moved my pussy ever closer to his mouth as he lapped up my juices. I then had him move away and I told him, "that was it for tonight". He wanted more, but I just couldn't let him think that I was going to let him have his way!! I hope he remembers that I am the mistress and he will be at my beck and call!!

bondage rope harness

A bondage rope harness, sometime also referred to as a bondage web, rope web, rope dress or karada, is a bondage

technique involving the tying of an intricate structure of rope around the body in a complex web-like fashion.

Similar in effect to a leather bondage harness, a bondage rope harness is not in itself normally used to bind a person, but it does apply pressure over the area bound and can be used as a securing point for other bondage techniques, including suspension bondage. It is not normally used to bind the limbs but you can bind the arms into the harness by simply going around the arms not under, as shown in the picture. A rope dress is often used with, or integrated with, a crotch rope and/or a shinju ("pearl") breast harness.

A rope dress typically takes around 10-15 m of rope to tie, and involves multiple passes of rope from front to back around the body to build up the characteristic diamond-shaped rope pattern, typically starting from a rope halter (as in the illustration) and moving down the body. In some cases, a rope harness may extend beyond the torso, into diamond-patterned webs that extend down the length of the arms or legs.

The Japanese term karada means simply "body". Traditionally, a distinction was made between kikkou ("turtle-shell" pattern; hexagonal) and hishi (diamond) patterned ties, although many modern sources just use the term kikkou to refer to any rope body harness.

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Couples and bondage

The fact that mainstream ‘high street’ adult shops find it worthwhile to also stock some bondage equipment suggests that some otherwise ‘vanilla’ couples incorporate elements of bondage into their sex lives at some point in their relationships. Leaving aside those couples who are themselves part of the BDSM ‘community’, the use of bondage within couples tends to be very different to and separate from that normally associated with BDSM. Couples’ private bondage games largely take place behind closed doors, and constitute foreplay, usually as a prelude to the couple having sex. There may or may not be some elements of dominance and submission involved as part of role play, but sadism and/or masochism rarely play any part unless the couple already have such leanings. This contrasts with activity in the BDSM subculture, where the emphasis is often more on bondage for its own sake, frequently ending in masturbation only, or indeed involving no sexual contact at all. These differences can lead to misunderstanding if couples who have tried private bondage games encounter the BDSM subculture. Trusting couples can't understand the need for safe-words, while the members of the subculture can't understand why couples mainly see bondage as a part of sexual intercourse.

Bondage within couples usually involves one partner being voluntarily tied-up or put into restraints (i.e. bound / cuffed / spread-eagled etc) by the other, who then either sexually pleasures the tied partner (using manual masturbation, oral sex, vibrating sex toys etc.); or has sex with them while they are restrained, or of course both. The erotic appeal is often in the form of feedback from the writhing / struggles / vocalizations etc of the tied partner. The tied partner may derive pleasure from being in a largely ‘helpless’ predicament in the hands of a trusted partner, and the other may enjoy the mild domination involved in having their partner in that predicament. Either way, many established couples find playing bondage games relationship-affirming, as they both require and imply a level of trust between the partners that is not normally found within more casual relationships, as well as being a shared ‘private’ facet of their sex life that most couples prefer to keep just between the two of them.

This form of bondage has its own niche on some internet websites, where images and movies usually depict voluntarily-tied models undergoing inescapable intense sexual pleasuring, rather than any menace, force or pain. Safety rules followed by couples are frequently context - and trust - based. As the tied partner will more often than not be held in a submissive sex position, sex therefore takes place with their pre-agreed consent. For example a still photograph taken out-of-context at that moment would suggest a very different story to that of a consensual sex game / mutual rape fantasy enactment etc.

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