Sunday, April 20, 2008

A GOREAN COLLARING CEREMONY

The following ceremony is based on a collaring performed by Tarl Cabot in the 10th book of the Gor series, Tribesmen of Gor. It might be used as a guide for the branding and/or collaring of any slave girl on Gor.



THE BRANDING

(This part of the ceremony is usually performed only when a girl is reduced to slavery for the first time, or if she already wears a brand and her new Master wishes to re-brand her.) In this, the first part of the full ceremony, the Master ties the new slave up and carries her to the house-branding chamber, securing her in the branding rack. The branding rack is a device rather like an X-shaped table, with either snap-bracelets (manacles) for her wrists and ankles at the ends of the X, or metal rings set into the wood so her wrists and ankles might be secured with binding fiber. A removable vise-like clamp fitted with spinning twist handles to adjust the tension can be attached to the left leg platform, to hold the slave's left thigh motionless during the actual branding. He holds up the heated branding iron, white hot, for the slave's inspection.

"You will soon be branded, girl," he tells her.

As soon as all is in readiness, he holds the smoking iron above her left thigh and says:

"You are now to be branded, slave girl."

He then brands her, holding the iron and pressing it firmly into her skin for three full ihn (seconds), then swiftly and cleanly removing it.

He examines the mark closely, hoping that it was clean and deep enough to create an excellent brand. It is common Gorean practice to allow the slave the luxury of screaming, since it is in effect her final act as free person. Sometimes assistants are standing by with small vials of oil and salve, which they now dab onto the brand to reduce chance of infection and promote faster healing.

The Master then frees her from the rack and throws her to the floor...her throat is bare, not yet collared.

THE ACTUAL COLLARING

(This part of the ceremony may be performed even if the slave has not been re-branded, as in the case where a slave is purchased by a new master or otherwise changes hands).

“Assume the posture of female submissive," he orders. She kneels; leaning back on her heels, her arms extended, wrists crossed, her head between them, down "Repeat after me," he tells her.

“I, once (her name) of (her home city or town, or of Earth)...She repeats this

“ Herewith submit myself, completely and totally, in all things." She repeats this.

“ To him who is known as (his name) of (his city).."She repeats this.

“His girl, his slave, an article of his property, his to do with as he pleases." She repeats this.

He then produces the collar. If it is engraved with his name or an inscription, he reads it to her, making sure that she understands what it says and means.

He places it about her neck and snaps it shut with a click.

"I am yours, Master," he says.

She repeats this.

At this point, any freepersons in attendance will typically congratulate the Master on his new slave. When this is done, the new Master will usually ask the slave the following three questions:

"Who were you?" he asks.

She tells him her former name.

"What are you?" he asks.

"I am your slave, Master," she says.

"What is your name?" he asks.

"Whatever Master wishes," she answers.

The Master will then, if it pleases him to do so, bestow upon the girl her new slave-name, which can be taken from her or changed at any time, according to his whim.

"You are (new slave-name)," he tells her.

"Yes, Master. I am (new slave-name)," she says.

The ceremony is now over. Thus it is that a new slave is collared upon Gor.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Types of spankings

A spanking (or flogging, belting, whipping, you name it) can be a punishment, it can be fun, and it can be an erotic experience.

There are several types of spankings, and they can be (loosely) classified as:
For fun
Sensual
Sexual
For no reason
Punishment
Breaking
Therapeutic
For relief

For fun

These are the spankings given playfully, with everybody around laughing and joking, like “birthday spankings”, or a couple of slaps on the butt as a joke. Their use is widespread even outside the BDSM community. It is the kind of spanking given when playing social “spanking games”, and also most of the ones given by vanilla couples as a sexual foreplay. They involve normally the hand, or at most a light instrument, and usually means little (at most some stinging) or no pain.
In this type, the pleasure is shared.

Sensual spankings

These are given for the sensorial experience in itself, to enjoy giving or receiving different sensations, to take the bottom to the ecstagony of pleasure. They are about caressing soft or violently, about touching the other, about feeling the other over your lap or feeling yourself on the other’s lap.
In this type, the pleasure is mainly for the bottom

Sexual spankings

They are part of the foreplay for lovemaking, or part of lovemaking itself. They are used for arousing the other, or to add to your own arousal.
The pleasure is shared
In both of last kinds, the instruments used and the pain level depends on the taste of the participants.

For no reason

Why ruining the pleasure of a good spanking with excuses for giving them? These are the spankings given because the dom wants to show who is in charge, or because the sub feels a need for it, because they both want to enjoy the game, or “just because…”. Of this kind are the “maintenance” spankings given by a “Master” to a “slave” just for reminding her of her condition. And also of this kind is the old advice of giving your significant other a licking once in a while (“Maybe you don’t know why, but she probably will”).
Of course, the instruments and pain level will depend on the whim of the players .
The pleasure is shared.

Punishment spankings:

These are real spankings, the ones used to produce a change in behavior. They are given for punishing some bottom’s real life or “in scene” mischief. As the ones given by the parents, these are supposed to be painful, not pleasurable. For them being useful, the punished should remember them as an experience to be avoided. The punishment spankings can involve some instrument and a position other than on the knees. Not touching the bottom other than with the instrument adds to the punishment. This is a good occasion for “six of the best” with a cane, or for a good paddling. The pain level will depend on the punished's sensibility. See Red butts.
This type is the only one in which the pleasure, if any, is mostly for the top.

Breaking spankings

These, even when they involve serious pain, are not as much physical as they are psychical. Its purpose is to break all of the bottom’s barriers, letting him/her cry her soul out. They are usually given in response to the bottom’s need to be reduced to a childlike state, where crying is permitted and nothing can be withheld.
Be careful if playing this way: you are touching deep into the bottom’s feelings, there can be a regression to childhood, and if the bottom was severely punished or abused as a child, it will bring back painful memories.
The aftercare should be especially intense. The bottom will probably will have to be caressed, hugged and kissed. S/he will have to be cared for, and to be reminded that s/he is a valuable human being, that is loved, respected and needed. Of course, a lot of pain is required for breaking the bottom’s mental structures.
Don’t try this with an stranger, or if your relation is not very stable, or if you are not totally sure of what you are doing.
No pleasure in these, but they are given at the bottom's request.

Therapeutic Spankings

These spankings (also known as "spanking therapy") are given for its curative value. All kinds of illness were "treated" with spankings, and there are still some uses proposed for them.
As in any therapeutic situation, they are not given for pleasure, but because they are needed.

For relief

During normal life, tension accumulates. A good spanking, with its crying and associated submission feelings, can relieve those tensions. Being punished is cleansing, letting the sub in a condition for beginning again with a clean slate. It could be used for relief of guilt, with a clear reason or for reasons not clear even for the spanked. Or it could be just to get relief for any other cause of stress produced by everyday life.
No pleasure, but good for the sub.

Genital Shaving

While there are several methods for hair removal, none can be as ritualistic as the Dominant shaving the submissive. Imagine the sub being vulnerable and exposed as the Dom explores her most private parts with a sharpened steel.

Uhm, what was I going to say again? Oh, yeah! I remember! The only problem with shaving is the damage it does to the usually-protected skin. So, what's the best way to go about it? Here are some of my tested tips. As always,

YMMV...

1. Plan on shaving at night. In the morning, the lower body is often puffy from retained fluid and this makes a close shave difficult.

2. Work in a clean, well-lit place (No, the "Pleasure Chest" doesn't allow public shaving scenes). I am kinda fond of the kitchen table. There is water handy, and it is just so *naughty*. I promise you will never eat dinner again without a big smile on your face.

3. Start by trimming the hair as close to the skin as possible. Make sure you show your sub the scissors.

4. Cover the area you are shaving with a hot, wet towel. Not only does this feel really delicious, it softens the hair and makes it easier to remove. Leave the towel there for a few minutes while you do other things...like tying the submissive to the table, for example.

5. Use lots of shaving cream (I like Edge (how appropriate...no jokes, please, LadyC!) Gel for Sensitive Skin), and a razor blade (I use Gillette Sensor) that has already been used once. A new blade is usually so sharp it doesn't give as close a shave as one with a little wear.

6. Shave with, not against, the growth of the hair and don't go over the same area too many times...this could cause razor burn. Tweezers are very handy for getting those stray hairs a little later in the game.

7. To prevent those nasty little red bumps caused by ingrown hairs, scrub the freshly-shaved area with a buff pad. Disposable Buf-Puffs work great.

8. No matter how good a shave you give, you are going to leave microscopic nicks and cuts. This can leave the skin open to nasty infections like venereal warts. To prevent this, apply an anti-bacterial/anti-fungal immediately after shaving. Betadine is the best, but it does stain the skin. You can also use peroxide, neosporin, etc.

9. Finally, liberally apply a moisturizer. My fave is Hawaiian Tropic Cool Aloe. This makes the skin nice and soft, and helps with the itching.

A word of caution...for best results, the shave has to be repeated every other day or so. It requires *alot* of maintenance. Before you do it for the first time, take this into consideration and be ready to keep it up. Of course, the longer you do it, the more accustomed your body becomes and the easier it gets.

Monday, April 14, 2008

Being tied by a mistress

Here is ursula being tied in a rope by her mistress and she enjoys the pleasure of being tied in a rope. more of this pictures at everydayslaves.com

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Eris the Femaledom.

Here is a sexy mistress letting her pussy get eaten by her slave, we might say that this slave is so lucky having the chance to lick your mistress pussy.
this mistress is one of my favorite because she is one of the most beautiful mistress that i have ever seen. she is one of a certified goddess of beauty.

in this picture eris show the true meaning of female domination or Femdom she dominates her slave by giving her order and giving her slave that elusive collar.



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Thursday, April 3, 2008

My first collar

I can remember the moment i placed the collar around her neck like it happened yesterday. There was no great ceremony involved, we had the room lit by only by scented candles.

I can still see how beautiful she looked in the glow of those candles as i told her to kneel naked at my feet. I could hear her breathing increase and her face flushed as i showed her the collar, her eyes never left it once.

As i placed it around her neck i was quietly asking her if she understood fully what it meant to wear my collar. That she was handing over complete control of her body and her soul to me to do with as i please.

I asked her if she agreed to all of that and the moment she said 'yes', i clicked the fastener shut. I looked into her eyes, told her i loved her and kissed her. So yeah, the fact she wore my collar for nearly three years meant everything