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Femdom cuckold - YES Mistress

2010-07-11T06:31:00.000-07:00

Hello BDSM world i am sure that you all miss me because its been a while since i post on to this blog and now that i am officially back i would like to say i miss you all i been away for a long time because i am training my new submissive slave about the latest technique on how to pleasure a dominant master using different bdsm techniques and methods. I recently found this wonderful blog about female supremacy or femdom were in the dominant master is called a mistress dominating a female or male sub. Yes-Mistress deals with the best femdom techniques and methods with the best femdom stories about femdom cuckold.

insidefemdom.com- femdom blog of stories

2009-09-05T10:40:00.000-07:00

Good news femdom lovers! There is a new blog released that deals with the niche of female supremacy and it is called insidefemdom.com. This blog is about female domination and female supremacy of a mistress or what they called goddess over their submissive slave partner. This blog has everything you want from femdom movies, femdom videos, femdom stories, femdom pictures and more. This blog will give you the techniques and styles on how to dominate your sub and it also give you some tips and the right methods of female supremacy..

Interracial BDSM Couple

2009-07-19T08:44:00.000-07:00

Here is a sweet interracial bdsm couple were the submissive is a beautiful white chick tied and gagged in the mouth. While her dominant master pleasuring his slave with a nice interracial sex that will sure make you enjoy watching. Watch this unique couple performed the most extreme bdsm methods that will sure make you ask for more... for more bdsm articles about bdsm methods and techniques just visit slaveduties.com or for female domination articles femdom-cuckold.com is the righ place for you!

cuckold as an art of domination

2009-07-16T08:46:00.000-07:00

Cuckold is one of the most dominant method in bdsm. It is commonly used for teasing and denying the orgasm of your male submissive. As part of bdsm cuckold is restraining the male organs from orgasm a sure pain and punishment for a cock. for more female doination you can read more interesting stories and article at femdom-cuckold.com

Femdom Article

2009-06-29T23:34:00.000-07:00

Female dominance (or Femdom) refers to BDSM activities where the dominant partner is female; the submissive partner may be of either sex. It can also refer to relationships that do not self-identify as BDSM, yet remain based on consensual power exchange or dominance and submission, with a female leading the overall dynamics of the relationship. Another common intepretation is to describe an entire belief system of gender discrimination associated with Female Supremacy. Female Supremacy is based on concepts such as the female being biologically or spiritually of a higher form or incarnation then the male.
Typical activities denoting female domination include forced feminization of a male partner, strap-on dildo penetration (also known as pegging), as well gender-neutral practices of domination such as boot worship. Consensual cuckolding is also used as a source of erotic humiliation, focusing on the inadequacy of a the male partner's penis. The overall goal is to extract sensual pleasure from the submission of a partner, which may be demoted to a plaything for the domme

Light female domination scenarios may involve various forms of orgasm control, such as tease and denial and tie and tease, as well as ageplay, erotic spanking, cunnilingus and body worship, especially foot worship and ass worship.

Female dominance of eris aurum

2009-06-17T08:09:00.000-07:00

Here is one of my favorite mistress or goddesses Eris Aurum! She is one cruel mistress that can sure make a slave become more submissive. She loves giving CBT or cock ball torture to her male sub or she can train you to worship her feet. But no matter what she do she will always be one hell of a great mistress the perfect mistress for your bdsm lifestyle fantasy. Watch her as she dominates her sub in a scene that will sure make you ask for more bdsm videos featuring this great mistress eris aurum. Craving for some nice femdom stories or femdom videos you can always come back to my bdsm blog because this blog is regularly updated to give you a nice insight about bdsm and everything about it.

Concept of CBT (cock ball torture)

2009-05-25T08:14:00.000-07:00

Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a sexual activity involving torture of the male genitals. This may involve directly painful activities, such as wax play, genital spanking, squeezing, ball busting, genital flogging, urethral play, tickle torture, erotic electrostimulation or even kicking. The recipient of such activities may receive direct physical pleasure via masochism, or emotional pleasure through knowledge that the play is pleasing to a sadistic Dominant.

Ball stretcher

A ball stretcher is a sex toy that is fastened around a man in order to elongate the scrotum and provide a feeling of weight pulling the testicles away from the body.

While leather stretchers are most common, other models are made of steel rings that are fastened with screws; causing additional uncomfortable weight to the wearer. The length of the stretcher may vary from 1-4 inches, and the steel models can weigh as much as five pounds

Humbler

A humbler is a BDSM physical restraint device used to restrict the movement of a submissive male participant in a BDSM scene.

The humbler consists of a testicle cuff device that clamps around the base of the scrotum, mounted in the centre of a bar that passes behind the thighs at the base of the buttocks. This forces the wearer to keep his legs folded forward, as any attempt to straighten the legs even slightly pulls directly on the scrotum, causing from considerable discomfort to extreme pain.

Parachute

A parachute is a small collar, usually made from leather, which fastens around the scrotum, and from which weights can be hung. Conical in shape, with three or four short chains hanging beneath, to which weights can be attached, its resemblance to its larger namesake, and the source of its own name, is obvious

Used as part of cock and ball torture within a BDSM relationship, the parachute provides a constant drag, and squeezing effect on the man's testicles, considerable weights of 3–5 kg can be suspended, especially during bondage. Smaller weights can be used when the man is free to move, when the swinging effect of the weight can restrict sudden movements, as well as providing a visual stimulus for the dominant partner.

Testicle cuff

A testicle cuff is a ring-shaped device around the scrotum between the body and the testicles such that when closed it does not allow the testicles to pass through it. A common type has two connected cuffs; one for the scrotum and one for the base of the penis. They are one of many different gadgets for restraining the male genitalia. Also a standard padlock may be locked around the scrotum, and without the key the man will not be able to remove it.

Some men enjoy the feeling of being 'owned', and some people enjoy the feeling of 'owning' their partners. Making the man wear testicle cuffs gives a sense that his sexual organs belong to his partner. Equally, there is a certain level of humiliation inherent in the devices, by which some people are sexually aroused. Finally, the cuffs may form part of a sexual fetish of the wearer or his partner.

Slave girl get punished by ropes

2009-05-08T23:55:00.000-07:00

Why don’t you take a glance at this beautiful slave and see her get punished during the wildest captured bdsm session of her life? In no time naughty punisher fixes girl’s body in special torture device with the only purpose to bring her maximum strong and unforgettable pain so soon. Lovely girl feels fucking frightened but can do really nothing to prevent master from pegging her nipples and teasing her sloppy pussy with the use of huge vibrator. More over, naughty fellow makes up his mind to blindfold girl in order to frighten her even stronger. This extremely rough captured bdsm session brings lovely slave really strong pleasure she has never felt before. As for you, guys, you will get your rocks on seeing slave girl get punished for more submissive slave you can go to slaveduties.com to get the best submissive slaves in the internet

Female Domination

2009-03-01T07:41:00.000-08:00

A great mistress always know how to dominate her slave, she knows how to performed every bdsm techniques and able to use every bdsm devices just to pleasure and humiliate her slave. As goes for this mistress she put her elusive collar to her slave wrap in a chain and starting to take control and dominate with this submissive slave of he. she uses all kinds of devices and technique just to make sure that the sub will enjoy the pleasure of being dominated. she comands her slave to lik her nice and juicy pussy, restrained him from orgasm and do some technique like flogging and restrained orgasm for this slave a real bdsm lifestyle experience for this submissive slave. For more Submissive slave and great Female domination just visit femdom-cuckold.com

Slave or submisive

2009-02-23T04:47:00.000-08:00

As I wrote in a previous post, I was feeling lost. I knew my purpose was to serve and please him, but I didn't know how to fulfill that purpose. I needed to know how to serve him better, how to be what he wanted me to be... heck, I needed to know what he wanted me to be. I needed guidance and direction, and most of all control.

So, Griz and I sat down and talked about things… where we wanted to go with our D/s and what each of us wanted out of it. And here's where we ended up: the goal is for me to completely surrender my will to him, to put myself under his control 24/7. Ultimately, our goal is to have a total power exchange relationship. This won't happen for us overnight. I need to learn to trust him more and obey him even when it doesn't suite me. I don't want to be his sometime submissive, I want to be his submissive all the time... which brings me to a topic I've been struggling with recently...

Submissive or slave?

When Griz and I first talked about moving toward a TPE relationship, he phrased it as a "Master/slave" dynamic. And I hesitated, because I've never seen myself as a slave, and I like identifying myself as a submissive. I had thought of a slave is more of an object and while I love the idea of Griz treating me like an object some of the time, I honestly don't see how we could keep up that dynamic all the time and still have a loving marriage. Slave also has sexual connotations to me, like sex slave, whereas submission is about all of it - the sex and the service. I feel like his slave during heavy play, but not when I'm fixing him dinner. I realize this is a highly charged subject about which many knowledgeable slaves and submissives and masters have written about, so I'll just preface this by saying these are only my opinions.

To get to the bottom of my feelings about being his slave, he gave me assignment to learn more about M/s by reading online and talking with a couple of other slaves or submissives. My good friend, padme, and my new friend martha were kind enough to listen to me and answer my questions. They were both so patient with me and thoughtful in their responses- thank you so much! My basic question was, what is the difference between a slave and a submissive? Both padme and martha said they started out as submissives, and eventually became slaves, and they both characterized being a slave as a more intense form of their submission... which is what I read on some of the websites I visited. Some people view being a slave as an extreme form of submission, others view slavery as something completely different from submission. There seem to be a lot of different opinions and definitions out there. One of the main differences between a slave and a submissive seems to be limits. Many of the websites I read said that submissives work within a framework of limitations, whereas slaves have no limits. But padme brought up a good point in that most (if not all) people have some limits, even if it's only one, even slaves. Are there slaves out there who would kill themselves or someone else if their Master commanded it? Maybe, but I think there are very few of them. So, I don't think a slave can be defined by limits, what someone will or won't do. After talking with padme and martha, I think being a slave is more of a state of mind than a set of actions. I think being a slave is an extreme, much more intense form of submission, but still fundamentally submission.

So with all that being said, does it matter what words Griz and I choose to define our relationship? I don't think it does. I am HIS, His good girl, His submissive, His slave, His lover, His friend, His (almost) wife. That's all that matters.

Slaves symbols and rituals

2008-11-19T21:23:00.000-08:00

Various forms of symbolism are sometimes used to affirm the owner/slave relationship, such as wearing the owner's collar, being registered in a slave register, adopting (sometimes legally changing to) a name chosen by the owner, or engaging in a public declaration or ritualized ceremony of some type. Some people draw up a slave contract that defines the relationship in explicit detail. These contracts have no legal weight and are not intended to be used in a court of law, but are an understanding and agreement between the individuals.

In some traditional rituals, after signing a slave contract, many people celebrate the commitment to the relationship with a collaring ceremony, which can be simple or elaborate and friends are usually invited. The slave then wears a collar, which symbolizes their status. The collar may be an actual piece of neckwear, or may be a bracelet or other piece of jewellery that symbolizes their slavery. These collars are generally never removed unless or until the relationship is dissolved, although some slaves exchange a formal collar for a more subdued (or less obtrusive) one for work or other social situations.

Lifestyle BDSM Couple

2008-10-19T16:47:00.000-07:00

Mistress Aurum comes home to a clean house …her Slave is dedicated to pleasing her every whim…and please he does as he is a housemaid, a pussy eater, a foot rest, a shoe cleaner, and finally left to kneel in front of a couch for the entire night before Mistress forgot to tell him he could move before she goes to bed! Mistress Eris is such a nice mistress she always pleasure her slave giving him what a real submissive slave really want but the best of all mistress eris is so gorgeous and hot that if you were a real submissive slave you would always wanted to make mistress eris to be your regular mistress that will pleasure you with her dominant techniques and methods. o how do i envy this slave for he has mistress eris by his side dominating him and restraining him from orgasm when they make bdsm sex.

slave tied and abuse

2008-10-16T01:03:00.000-07:00

I just love being tied and abuse by master and i enjoy every moment of our bdsm lifestyle for i could never seen a beautiful life and imagine my life without my master. Master just tied me to an abandoned basement and as i am brutally abuse i intensely waiting for master to pleasure me a give me one hell of a bdsm sex for i love to be fuck and abuse brutally.

BDSM in our daily lives

2008-10-13T15:07:00.001-07:00

Personally I my self love to see or watch a great BDSM movies i love to see real life couple do BDSM stuff and i also like the idea of a BDSM Lifestyle were you can see a slave and master or a mistress. There are a lot of BDSM movie in the internet that has a real life BDSM couple. As a watch many BDSM movie i always notice one thing, not all people are dominant some love to be dominated that is why i realize that in a personal life BDSM really exist in a couple even an ordinary couple BDSM exist within them weather they accept it or not That Means BDSM is not a unique thing that only few people do but it is done by any other ordinary couple in this earth. For example a couple is engage in an ordinary sex weather we admit it or not we pleasure your partner and by pleasuring her or him you sometimes do stuff and the other partner is just lying and enjoying it self so it means your dominatimg your partner you dictate the tempo so that she or he could pleasure it self that is BDSM right dominating partner to make her or him pleasure and sensual. This are the fact that made BDSM as a regular habit in any couple.

BDSM dominance and submission

2008-09-16T11:18:00.000-07:00

Dominance and submission ) is a set of behaviors, customs and rituals relating to the giving and accepting of dominance of one individual over another in an erotic or lifestyle context.

Physical contact is not a necessity, and it can even be conducted anonymously over telephone, email or instant messaging services. In other cases it can be intensely physical, sometimes traversing into sadomasochism. In D/s, one takes pleasure or erotic enjoyment out of either dominating or being dominated. Those who take the superior position are called dominants, Doms (male) or Dommes (female), while those who take the subordinate position are called submissives or subs (male or female). A switch is an individual who plays in either role. Two switches together may negotiate and exchange roles several times in a session. "Dominatrix" is a term usually reserved for a female professional dominant who dominates others for pay.

slave fantasy

2008-08-26T13:30:00.000-07:00

As a 24/7 real slave i always wanted to experience a new and exciting way to pleasure master but there is always something in me that i really dont understand and that is to become a mistress and have my own slave to pleasure me but i am afraid that if i tried to become a mistress and have my own slave i might not have the experience to pleasure my slave even if i know the method or the things in bdsm sex that would pleasure a real slave. How i wish that i would know how to pleasure a slave like my master used to pleasure me by giving me his elusive collar and chain using rope and tied it to my body using device bondage sex to make me feel the pain and pain is always the best thing i like about bdsm how i wish i could able to do that and not envy my slave when i do those things to her....

Eris as a slave and as a mistress

2008-08-15T11:37:00.000-07:00

As always Eris has been a switch she can be a real mean mistress or an extreme submissive slave but as i seen her do a real 24/7 slave i envy her master for having such a great slave in the form of eris because she knows how to pleasure her master because she has an experience as a master and as a slave that is why when she is doing the role of a real slave she knows what to do on how to pleasure her master and when she is a mistress she still know how to pleasure her slave. That is the one advantage of being a switch you know how to pleasure on both end. This beautiful slave is wearing her favorite collar as she is been honor by her master if you want to see the video of eris as a slave you can click it here Eris Slave or if you want to see her as a mistress you can see her here Mistress Eris.

Fetish

2008-08-05T08:59:00.000-07:00

Sexual fetishism, or erotic fetishism, is the sexual attraction to materials and objects not conventionally viewed as being sexual in nature; the term was first introduced by Alfred Binet, the psychologist better known for inventing IQ testing. Fetishism is diagnosable as a paraphilia in the DSM and the ICD, but many people embrace their fetishes rather than seek treatment to attempt to be rid of them. Body parts may also be the subject of sexual fetishes (also known as partialism) in which the body part preferred by the fetishist takes a sexual precedence over the owner. Sexual fetishism may be regarded as a disorder of sexual preference, or as an enhancing element to a relationship.

In a review of the files of all cases over a 20 year period who met criteria for an non-transvestic fetishes in a teaching hospital, 48 cases were identified, and the objects of their fetishes included clothing (58.3%), rubber and rubber items (22.9%), footwear (14.6%), body parts (14.6%), leather and leather items (10.4%), and soft materials and fabrics (6.3%).

Free Fetish Movies

2008-07-19T14:30:00.000-07:00

What is the latest in the BDSM Community? well the latest in BDSM community is the release of fetishstudy.com website it is a website dedicated to Fetish videos, BDSM Videos, Bondage Videos and more. The best thing about this site is that it lets you embade the videos to your website so you can upload your video and embade it directly to your website or blogs. This site gives a variation of different videos that suites your taste, you can see fetish videos, footworshiping, bdsm lifestyle videos, femdom video , bondage videos, trampling videos and more come and visit fetishstudy.com were you can find the best Fetish Movies in the internet

BDSM Lesbian experience

2008-07-09T04:02:00.000-07:00

BDSM Lesbian experience by starla. Starla and randy is a married couple that has been living a BDSM lifestyle couple so randy decided to film starla's first ever Lesbian bdsm experience and the slave in this picture is worshiping the foot of starla as you may know the one who worship starlas foot before is randy so she let starla experience a new bdsm lifestyle by getting her a new slave....

Bondage chores

2008-07-06T12:25:00.000-07:00

There are slave that always love to do their daily chores and it is being beaten up and tied While their master or mistresses satisfy while they are being beaten up. So being a lifestyle slave it is fun to do all my daily task of bondage and enjoy doing it while i pleasure my master and see him enjoy dominate me and tied me while making sex or bondage sex.

BDSM Poem

2008-06-26T15:11:00.000-07:00

Bound and whipped and strapped for love
Suspended from the ceiling above
Overwhelmed by Your strength and power
More tears fall with every hour
The moans and cries become more pleading
As the marks and welts continue heating
Purifying Your slave for You
Until her sins are but few
So that soon You will command her to stay
To forever serve You in every way
To bow before You and kneel at Your feet
To be allowed to feel Your body heat
To obey like a good slave should
To know she is once again good
To be possessed by You, spirit and mind
All questions and doubt left behind
To prove to You how much she adores
Once again, finally, being Yours

Mistress Madeline

2008-06-22T11:47:00.000-07:00

If there is one sexy and mistress that i adore that is Maitresse Madeline. Her grace, beauty, and ability to tease, torture, and love her submissives won me over the very first time I saw one of her videos. Her personality, and her love for her submissives is unparalleled by anyone I’ve ever known. She is a mistress that loves to pleasure her sub by punishing him and make him submit to her a sexy and gorgeous mistress.Maitresse Madline has the ability to bring a man to his knees and worship her, as if she were an idol - simply by flicking her foot. A man even normally wanting to “fuck bitches” can be brought to his knees and be content…no…not content, but happy and thankful to lick, clean, worship and serve the the feet of this amazing woman. This is a real BDSM Lifestyle of a gorgeous Mistress and a submissive slave.

Slave Training

2008-06-19T14:50:00.000-07:00

Here is a great slave training hard to become a great submissive slave she is been tied by a chain while eating a nice juice machine dildo. Princess Donna who has been a domme for god knows how long and has been an object of my admiration for as long as I’ve been browsing the internet. Master knows I am fully bi-sexual and understands that I crave to worship women as much as I do men - and as I’ve stated in the past, true love is understanding one’s needs. Master often invites his female dom friends over to use and abuse me, and as you may also know from previous posts I have an undying foot and shoe fetish. This is a certified Submissive BDSM slave.

BDSM Toys and methods

2008-06-09T11:28:00.000-07:00

All BDSM toys present some risk of transferring pathogens from one person to another if they are used on more than one person. Many people are aware that toys which come in contact with body fluids, such as plugs, gags, and cutting blades, should be carefully disinfected. However, lower-risk toys such as ropes, cuffs, floggers, and paddles are often overlooked. Ropes sometimes abrade skin and absorb minute amounts of blood without notice. Floggers can cause micro-breaks in the skin and become contaminated. Under some circumstances even perspiration can be a vector for disease. It is important to understand that "low risk" is not the same as "no risk." In order to minimize risk, all toys should be subject to an effective disinfecting procedure prior to use on a different person.

The robustness of microorganisms varies greatly. Some are easy to destroy, others are remarkably difficult to neutralize. Microorganisms also vary in regard to their resistance to specific methods of disinfection. For instance, some are very heat sensitive and some are heat resistant. Because the HIV virus is relatively easy to neutralize, sometimes the recommendation is made to simply "air out toys to disinfect" them. This practice is dangerous, because while it is true that HIV is not the most stable of pathogens, it may survive much longer then expected depending on the substrate (body fluids) within which it is carried.

Additionally, HIV is not the only pathogen of concern. Hepatitis is more common and more infectious then HIV, for example. At the time of this writing (2002), Hepatitis B (HBV) is the most common of the hepatitis viruses. There is no cure for the disease, but fortunately, there is a vaccine. Those involved with BDSM should talk to their doctors about the benefits of being vaccinated.

Hepatitis C (HCV) is another high-threat disease that can be transferred through BDSM-related contact. HCV is currently (2002) less common than HBV, but it is still more common than HIV. There is no cure for HCV and there is no vaccine. Think carefully before sharing toys.

Because there are so many undesirable microorganisms, it is not practical to test each disinfecting procedure against all pathogens. It is more reasonable to evaluate procedures by selecting a few difficult to kill organisms as benchmarks. Because HBV & HCV are relatively common and reasonably resilient, they are useful benchmark candidates. In general, procedures that will neutralize HBV & HCV will also neutralize HIV. Another good benchmark is the spore form of bacteria. Endospores have a protective protein coat and are more rugged than vegetative forms of bacteria.

Many of the commonly recommended procedures for sanitizing BDSM toys are marginally effective at best. It also must be remembered that no sanitizing procedure is 100% safe--even medical heat-based sterilizers can suffer unnoticed mechanical failure. If you want to be 100% sure that pathogens will not be transferred from one person to another, then limit each toy to contact with only one person. Cross contact always involves some level of risk. If however, toys are going to be shared, the risks may be reduced by the methods detailed below.

There are several types of heat-based sterilizers. The two most common are dry heat and steam based. Steam sterilizers (autoclaves) will sterilize a reasonably wide range of materials. Exact temperature, pressure, and cycle time vary by model of sterilizer. The higher the temperature, the greater the pressure and the shorter the sterilization cycle. Steam sterilizers generally operate at temperatures around 273f (133c). Dry heat sterilizers employ higher temperatures (320f+ (160c+)) than steam system to destroy microorganisms.

Heat based sterilizers are quite effective and will destroy all types microorganisms; however, heat methods can only be used on toys that can withstand high temperatures. If you are interested in a heat-based sterilizer, a brief hunt around the web should provide the names of several manufactures. Keep in mind, however, that just because these devices are expensive does not mean they are a magic fix. They still rely on proper use to be effective.

Boiling in water is another common method used to disinfect items. Boiling for 20 to 30 minutes does a good job of neutralizing most common microorganisms. However, it does not render the item technically "sterile", as endospores may survive.

Liquid disinfectants are perhaps the most convenient way to disinfect toys. To be truly effective the toy being disinfected should be scrubbed, then soaked in the disinfectant for about 30 minutes. There are two reasons for the long contact time. First, many disinfectants require extended contact time to neutralize pathogens. Second, the liquid must also be in contact with the toy long enough to penetrate and break up any dried body fluids on the item.

Liquid disinfectants can also be hard on some toy materials. It is a good idea to test the toy's resistance by placing a drop of the disinfectant on an inconspicuous spot and allowing the drop to stand until dry. This isn't a perfect method of determining how well a toy will hold up to the liquid, but should bring to light obvious incompatibilities.

Leather is particularly difficult to disinfect without causing some wear and tear. Leather is a biological material and disinfectants function by disrupting biological structures. After leather is treated with disinfectant, it should be allowed to dry thoroughly before reconditioning with mineral oil or your favorite leather conditioner. With leather it becomes a choice of either accepting some reduction in the life of the toy or choosing to limit the toy to only one person.

One other concern with liquid disinfectants is that some are quite toxic. All toys that may come in contact with any body orifice (especially mouth) should be thoroughly and repeatedly rinsed to remove residual disinfectant.

Chlorine is perhaps the best commonly available disinfectant. A cheap but very effective disinfectant can me made from 1 cup of household chlorine bleach mixed with 10 cups of warm water. A fresh 1:10 dilution of domestic chlorine bleach contains about 5000ppm available chlorine. This level of chlorine has been shown to be effective against HCV (1) and endospores (4). However, chlorine is corrosive and is not recommended for leather, latex or non-stainless steels. However, it does work nicely on plastics and play area floors. The chlorine content of bleach solutions decreases over time, so a fresh solution should always be used.

Phenolic (Phenol) disinfectants are commonly found in mouth washes and surface disinfectants such as Lysol. Phenols are effective against most vegetative bacteria and enveloped viruses such as HBV (5). Phenols are not effective against naked viruses or endospores. Because phenolic disinfectants are commonly used for cleaning there are many brands available. A quick search of the web for "phenolic disinfectants" will produce a significant list of products. Ideally, the product used should be the type that produces a wash to soak toys in rather than a disinfectant spray. Sprays are considerably less effective. Phenolics are generally not too hard on toys.

Povidone-iodine solutions such as Betadine are broad-acting microbicides, which are accepted as effective against HCV and many other organisms (2). Such solutions are only partly effective against endospores and are more expensive then some other types of disinfectants. Also, some people have serious allergies to iodine. Always ask if the bottom has any allergies to iodine before using a toy disinfected with it. Povidone-iodine solutions are non-corrosive and are safe for a wide range of materials. The iodine may stain some materials, but simple warm water will wash it out of most items.

Ethanol (grain alcohol) and isopropanol (rubbing alcohol) in concentrations between 90% and 70% are classified as an intermediate level disinfectants. Higher concentrations are actually less effective. Alcohols have been shown effective against HBV and HIV and are presumed effective against HCV (3). Alcohols are effective against most vegetative forms of bacteria, but not against endospores or naked viruses. Most toy materials tolerate alcohol contact fairly well. One point of caution is that alcohol is very flammable.

There are many other chemicals that can be used for disinfection, the above discussion is only intended to give an overview of the more easily accessible materials. While it is true that there is no easy method to completely sterilize all toys, the risks can be significantly reduced with a bit of care.

However, there is one toy that should always be considered a single use item--needles. Needles create puncture wounds, which are ready-made pockets for infection. No attempt should be made to clean needles for reuse. The risk of carrying minute bits of foreign material into the puncture wound is too great to justify any attempt to reuse needles. New sterile needles can be obtained by prescription from a BDSM-friendly doctor. If you don't know one, do a search on the web for Kink Aware Professionals (link) or ask around the local scene.

Aside from the careful disinfecting of toys, there are a few other simple steps that can help reduce the risk of infectious disease. One of the simplest is covering any insertable toy with either a latex or PVC condom. Never use lambskin condoms for this purpose--they offer no protection against disease. This should not be a substitute for disinfecting shared toys, but it should be an additional precaution. Additionally, no object should ever be moved from the anus into the vagina without careful cleaning. Doing so carries a significant risk of infection. And finally, general cleanliness counts. If a submissive has dirt or feces on the surface of the skin and is then flogged, the chance of infection is much greater. The same is true if a flogger is wiped across a dirty floor during play.

BDSM can be a very safe activity if reasonable precautions are followed. Also, keep in mind that no procedure or precaution is a substitute for knowing your partner and their history. If you have any doubts the "one toy, one person" rule is always the safest bet.

BDSM Video compilation

2008-05-31T00:24:00.000-07:00

I am a person that love's to watch BDSM Videos and as i browse slaveduties.com i noticed that they have a new post and it is a video article post so i try to check it and lucky for me it is the preview collection of a real BDSM couple documenting their BDSM Lifestyle. As i watch the preview i was amaze by their quality of video they have the best BDSM porn videos in the internet were you can find various types of BDSM niche like foot mistress, feet fetishes, BDSM Lifestyle , BDSM Lesbian, bondage sex fem domination or femdom but the best of all they have my my favorite submissive marcy and and eris. This video contains 6 to 7 episode documenting a real bdsm lifestyle of a slave and master and it is so wonderful because i see a variation of different bdsm movies i just hope they update soon because i just cant wait to see more bdsm lifestyle of a 24/7 slave.

Outdoor bondage

2008-05-30T01:38:00.000-07:00

Yes it is the time of the year were sun is high and the temperature is hot I guess for me it is time to do some outdoor bondage and i do hope that my master would let me do some outdoor bondage action. I am here at the park waiting for my master to tie the ropes on my body and and feel those ropes as it pleasures me everytime the rope touches my skin as master would feel me while i am being tied and suspended in the air. As my master would fuck me and i will have to experience for the first time on how to performe BDSM sex and Bondage sex while being suspended in the air on a shiny and bright .

I remember when he first introduced the electrical fence concept to me. I was so enthusiastic I used to cross it just to torture myself when he wasn’t around…which wasn’t that often honsetly because for the first year of being his slave - if he wasn’t around I was hogtied in a cage, however there were a select few times in which I still had many chores to do so he would tie my hands and ankles so that I could be in bondage, but free to roam and do chores. So in reality the electrical fence I guess was in foresight of my life that was to come - and now has.

He came home last night very tired! He had documented a brand new couple yesterday…a wonderful couple apparently. They actually invited him to the day in which they would finally begin their 24/7 relationship…so he (and by extension you members) got to see the relationship go from husband/wife to goddes/loser,sissy,slave,slut. I’m extremely interested to see the footage :)

A GOREAN COLLARING CEREMONY

2008-04-20T08:44:00.000-07:00

The following ceremony is based on a collaring performed by Tarl Cabot in the 10th book of the Gor series, Tribesmen of Gor. It might be used as a guide for the branding and/or collaring of any slave girl on Gor.

THE BRANDING

(This part of the ceremony is usually performed only when a girl is reduced to slavery for the first time, or if she already wears a brand and her new Master wishes to re-brand her.) In this, the first part of the full ceremony, the Master ties the new slave up and carries her to the house-branding chamber, securing her in the branding rack. The branding rack is a device rather like an X-shaped table, with either snap-bracelets (manacles) for her wrists and ankles at the ends of the X, or metal rings set into the wood so her wrists and ankles might be secured with binding fiber. A removable vise-like clamp fitted with spinning twist handles to adjust the tension can be attached to the left leg platform, to hold the slave's left thigh motionless during the actual branding. He holds up the heated branding iron, white hot, for the slave's inspection.

"You will soon be branded, girl," he tells her.

As soon as all is in readiness, he holds the smoking iron above her left thigh and says:

"You are now to be branded, slave girl."

He then brands her, holding the iron and pressing it firmly into her skin for three full ihn (seconds), then swiftly and cleanly removing it.

He examines the mark closely, hoping that it was clean and deep enough to create an excellent brand. It is common Gorean practice to allow the slave the luxury of screaming, since it is in effect her final act as free person. Sometimes assistants are standing by with small vials of oil and salve, which they now dab onto the brand to reduce chance of infection and promote faster healing.

The Master then frees her from the rack and throws her to the floor...her throat is bare, not yet collared.

THE ACTUAL COLLARING

(This part of the ceremony may be performed even if the slave has not been re-branded, as in the case where a slave is purchased by a new master or otherwise changes hands).

“Assume the posture of female submissive," he orders. She kneels; leaning back on her heels, her arms extended, wrists crossed, her head between them, down "Repeat after me," he tells her.

“I, once (her name) of (her home city or town, or of Earth)...She repeats this

“ Herewith submit myself, completely and totally, in all things." She repeats this.

“ To him who is known as (his name) of (his city).."She repeats this.

“His girl, his slave, an article of his property, his to do with as he pleases." She repeats this.

He then produces the collar. If it is engraved with his name or an inscription, he reads it to her, making sure that she understands what it says and means.

He places it about her neck and snaps it shut with a click.

"I am yours, Master," he says.

She repeats this.

At this point, any freepersons in attendance will typically congratulate the Master on his new slave. When this is done, the new Master will usually ask the slave the following three questions:

"Who were you?" he asks.

She tells him her former name.

"What are you?" he asks.

"I am your slave, Master," she says.

"What is your name?" he asks.

"Whatever Master wishes," she answers.

The Master will then, if it pleases him to do so, bestow upon the girl her new slave-name, which can be taken from her or changed at any time, according to his whim.

"You are (new slave-name)," he tells her.

"Yes, Master. I am (new slave-name)," she says.

The ceremony is now over. Thus it is that a new slave is collared upon Gor.

Types of spankings

2008-04-16T09:08:00.000-07:00

A spanking (or flogging, belting, whipping, you name it) can be a punishment, it can be fun, and it can be an erotic experience.

There are several types of spankings, and they can be (loosely) classified as:
For fun
Sensual
Sexual
For no reason
Punishment
Breaking
Therapeutic
For relief

For fun

These are the spankings given playfully, with everybody around laughing and joking, like “birthday spankings”, or a couple of slaps on the butt as a joke. Their use is widespread even outside the BDSM community. It is the kind of spanking given when playing social “spanking games”, and also most of the ones given by vanilla couples as a sexual foreplay. They involve normally the hand, or at most a light instrument, and usually means little (at most some stinging) or no pain.
In this type, the pleasure is shared.

Sensual spankings

These are given for the sensorial experience in itself, to enjoy giving or receiving different sensations, to take the bottom to the ecstagony of pleasure. They are about caressing soft or violently, about touching the other, about feeling the other over your lap or feeling yourself on the other’s lap.
In this type, the pleasure is mainly for the bottom

Sexual spankings

They are part of the foreplay for lovemaking, or part of lovemaking itself. They are used for arousing the other, or to add to your own arousal.
The pleasure is shared
In both of last kinds, the instruments used and the pain level depends on the taste of the participants.

For no reason

Why ruining the pleasure of a good spanking with excuses for giving them? These are the spankings given because the dom wants to show who is in charge, or because the sub feels a need for it, because they both want to enjoy the game, or “just because…”. Of this kind are the “maintenance” spankings given by a “Master” to a “slave” just for reminding her of her condition. And also of this kind is the old advice of giving your significant other a licking once in a while (“Maybe you don’t know why, but she probably will”).
Of course, the instruments and pain level will depend on the whim of the players .
The pleasure is shared.

Punishment spankings:

These are real spankings, the ones used to produce a change in behavior. They are given for punishing some bottom’s real life or “in scene” mischief. As the ones given by the parents, these are supposed to be painful, not pleasurable. For them being useful, the punished should remember them as an experience to be avoided. The punishment spankings can involve some instrument and a position other than on the knees. Not touching the bottom other than with the instrument adds to the punishment. This is a good occasion for “six of the best” with a cane, or for a good paddling. The pain level will depend on the punished's sensibility. See Red butts.
This type is the only one in which the pleasure, if any, is mostly for the top.

Breaking spankings

These, even when they involve serious pain, are not as much physical as they are psychical. Its purpose is to break all of the bottom’s barriers, letting him/her cry her soul out. They are usually given in response to the bottom’s need to be reduced to a childlike state, where crying is permitted and nothing can be withheld.
Be careful if playing this way: you are touching deep into the bottom’s feelings, there can be a regression to childhood, and if the bottom was severely punished or abused as a child, it will bring back painful memories.
The aftercare should be especially intense. The bottom will probably will have to be caressed, hugged and kissed. S/he will have to be cared for, and to be reminded that s/he is a valuable human being, that is loved, respected and needed. Of course, a lot of pain is required for breaking the bottom’s mental structures.
Don’t try this with an stranger, or if your relation is not very stable, or if you are not totally sure of what you are doing.
No pleasure in these, but they are given at the bottom's request.

Therapeutic Spankings

These spankings (also known as "spanking therapy") are given for its curative value. All kinds of illness were "treated" with spankings, and there are still some uses proposed for them.
As in any therapeutic situation, they are not given for pleasure, but because they are needed.

For relief

During normal life, tension accumulates. A good spanking, with its crying and associated submission feelings, can relieve those tensions. Being punished is cleansing, letting the sub in a condition for beginning again with a clean slate. It could be used for relief of guilt, with a clear reason or for reasons not clear even for the spanked. Or it could be just to get relief for any other cause of stress produced by everyday life.
No pleasure, but good for the sub.

Genital Shaving

2008-04-16T09:05:00.000-07:00

While there are several methods for hair removal, none can be as ritualistic as the Dominant shaving the submissive. Imagine the sub being vulnerable and exposed as the Dom explores her most private parts with a sharpened steel.

Uhm, what was I going to say again? Oh, yeah! I remember! The only problem with shaving is the damage it does to the usually-protected skin. So, what's the best way to go about it? Here are some of my tested tips. As always,

YMMV...

1. Plan on shaving at night. In the morning, the lower body is often puffy from retained fluid and this makes a close shave difficult.

2. Work in a clean, well-lit place (No, the "Pleasure Chest" doesn't allow public shaving scenes). I am kinda fond of the kitchen table. There is water handy, and it is just so *naughty*. I promise you will never eat dinner again without a big smile on your face.

3. Start by trimming the hair as close to the skin as possible. Make sure you show your sub the scissors.

4. Cover the area you are shaving with a hot, wet towel. Not only does this feel really delicious, it softens the hair and makes it easier to remove. Leave the towel there for a few minutes while you do other things...like tying the submissive to the table, for example.

5. Use lots of shaving cream (I like Edge (how appropriate...no jokes, please, LadyC!) Gel for Sensitive Skin), and a razor blade (I use Gillette Sensor) that has already been used once. A new blade is usually so sharp it doesn't give as close a shave as one with a little wear.

6. Shave with, not against, the growth of the hair and don't go over the same area too many times...this could cause razor burn. Tweezers are very handy for getting those stray hairs a little later in the game.

7. To prevent those nasty little red bumps caused by ingrown hairs, scrub the freshly-shaved area with a buff pad. Disposable Buf-Puffs work great.

8. No matter how good a shave you give, you are going to leave microscopic nicks and cuts. This can leave the skin open to nasty infections like venereal warts. To prevent this, apply an anti-bacterial/anti-fungal immediately after shaving. Betadine is the best, but it does stain the skin. You can also use peroxide, neosporin, etc.

9. Finally, liberally apply a moisturizer. My fave is Hawaiian Tropic Cool Aloe. This makes the skin nice and soft, and helps with the itching.

A word of caution...for best results, the shave has to be repeated every other day or so. It requires *alot* of maintenance. Before you do it for the first time, take this into consideration and be ready to keep it up. Of course, the longer you do it, the more accustomed your body becomes and the easier it gets.

Being tied by a mistress

2008-04-14T20:18:00.000-07:00

Here is ursula being tied in a rope by her mistress and she enjoys the pleasure of being tied in a rope. more of this pictures at everydayslaves.com

Eris the Femaledom.

2008-04-09T09:50:00.000-07:00

Here is a sexy mistress letting her pussy get eaten by her slave, we might say that this slave is so lucky having the chance to lick your mistress pussy.
this mistress is one of my favorite because she is one of the most beautiful mistress that i have ever seen. she is one of a certified goddess of beauty.

in this picture eris show the true meaning of female domination or Femdom she dominates her slave by giving her order and giving her slave that elusive collar.

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My first collar

2008-04-03T11:11:00.000-07:00

I can remember the moment i placed the collar around her neck like it happened yesterday. There was no great ceremony involved, we had the room lit by only by scented candles.

I can still see how beautiful she looked in the glow of those candles as i told her to kneel naked at my feet. I could hear her breathing increase and her face flushed as i showed her the collar, her eyes never left it once.

As i placed it around her neck i was quietly asking her if she understood fully what it meant to wear my collar. That she was handing over complete control of her body and her soul to me to do with as i please.

I asked her if she agreed to all of that and the moment she said 'yes', i clicked the fastener shut. I looked into her eyes, told her i loved her and kissed her. So yeah, the fact she wore my collar for nearly three years meant everything

Wearing collar as part of BDSM

2008-03-29T07:07:00.000-07:00

In a BDSM context, a collar is a device of any material placed around the neck of the partner. submissive It is also a term used to show ownership of one partner by another. A person wearing a collar to symbolize their relationship with another is said to be collared. Some people conduct formal "collaring ceremonies," which are regarded as effectively solemnizing their relationship in a similar way as a marriage ceremony. The standard form of a collar is a black leather band around the neck and often has metal D-rings added to allow the attachment of a leash.

Collars may be used in role-playing games involving humiliation because they have connotations of control and pet-like status, especially when worn with a leash.

Sexy babes in a bondage sex experience

2008-03-14T06:39:00.000-07:00

A guy ties his slave while preparing for an extreme bondage sex. Eris is a gorgeous slave that love's to be fuck bondage (bondage involves people being tied up or otherwise restrained for pleasure. Bondage is usually, but not always, a sexual practice. The paraphilia of being sexually aroused by bondage is sometimes known as vincilagnia.) style.

Submissive orgasm control

2008-03-13T08:33:00.000-07:00

Typically, The Dominant Will Give slow, Gentle And Steady Physical Stimulation To His Submissive's Clit Or Vaginal Area, The Gradual Stimilation Will Bring Your submissive To The Brink Of Almost Having An Orgasm, Then Start To Reduce The Stimulation, So That Your Submissive Does Not Actually Have An Orgasm, But Is Made To "Hold It. Wait A Few Moments For The Tension To Be Relaxed, For Your Submissive To Come Back From The Edge So To Speak. Then Repeat The Stimulation, After A Few Times of repeating This procedure, Your Submissives Need To Orgasm Shall Be Overwhelming.

By Carefully Varying The Intensity Of The Stimulation, The submissive Is The Kept In A High State Of Arousal. Kept In This Highly State Of Arousal For Even A Short Period Of Time Can Induce, An Euphoric State Of Pleasure. The Feeling Of Control Is Immense, Soon With Enough Familiarity You Will Be Able To Read Your Submissive's Responses To Get The Intensity And Timing Just Right. The prcoess Is Slow And Much Patience And Support is required, You Will Need To Monitor Your Submissive Closely For The Results You Are Hoping To Achieve.

Be Consistent In Your Training Keeping Your Submissive In The Highly Aroused State For Long Extended Periods Of Time Is Also Known As Orgasm Denial. The Submissive Is Repeatedly Teased To The Brink Of Orgasm, Causing Her Feelings Of Desperation For Relief. How Long You Wish To Deny Your Submissive Orgasm Release, Is Up To Each Individual Dominant, Some Will Prefer To Hear The Begging And Crying For Longer Periods Of Time.

For The Best Results Lock The Toy Box Or Use Restraints To Keep Your Submissive From Touching Herself, And Causing Herself To Orgasm. Remember She Orgasms At Your Command, She Has No Control On How Or When She May Be Allowed To Orgasm. She Has Given Up Her Right To Have An Orgasm, Your In Control. A Post Scene Punishment/Reward System May be Useful In Encouraging Your Submissive To Try Her Best To Reach Her Goal.

Not Stopping The Stimulation Forcing Your Submissive To Orgasm Many Times Over And Over Is Called "Forced Orgasms". It Is Common To Force Orgasms On Your Submissive, In Preparation For A Orgasm Denial Scene.

types of collars

2008-03-13T08:07:00.000-07:00

Training Collar. This collar represents the second collar exchanged between a dominant and a submissive. This is offered by the dominant after they have engaged in a period of time where they have held extensive lifestyle conversations and explored each others sexual needs, desires, personalities, dreams, hopes and goals in order to see if they prove to be a good match enough to move into a relationship of a deeper commitment. Most enter a deeper emotional stage at this point and may begin to express true devotion, love, honour and mutual respect.

Formal Or Slave Collar. This is the representation of the final stage of commitment. It expresses the belief that the dominant and submissive share a genuine and growing desire to share in each others lives, perhaps the rest of their lives.

Collar Of Consideration. "The exploring stage" this collar is traditionally given at the very beginning of a potential relationship. This is expressing an interest in pursuing a relationship with a submissive beyond that of a casual acquaintance. The collar acts to openly declare to other dominant's that this submissive is "off-limits" and that honourable dominant's should not pursue this submissive in any manner.

Tied and true

2008-03-10T07:15:00.001-07:00

Today was a fantastic day. Once my boi arrived, I proceeded to tie him to my bed. I was dressed for business. After some choice words and torturous moves I mounted his rock hard shaft. Moving up and down on it at the pace I desired. It felt so exquisite! I wanted to stop before making him cum. I had some shopping to do, so left him lying there to think about what just happened. It was wonderful to be out, dressed up, and with the lingering feel between my legs of how great he felt. When I came back home I couldn't wait to pick up where I left off. Straddling him again, I worked myself up and down on him and brought him to release. I only wish we lived together so I could take the time to torture him all day and into the night. Still have plenty of ideas to try out- and "so little time". I could get used to this. Oh yea...had to use my cane on his behind to take out my frustration at not having him available longer!!!

Great licking slave

2008-03-10T07:12:00.000-07:00

Last night I had the most amazing time showing my boy exactly who's in charge. He had been trying my patience all week, as usual! It was time to tighten up the reigns. When he arrived at my place I had him go into the bedroom. I blindfolded him and had him hold out his hand. I gave him six of my best with the cane. I like the way he cowers in anticipation of the next strike and not knowing when it will land. After leaving some nice red marks, I had him come out to the living room. I had him take off his clothes so I could gaze on his nakedness and make him feel vulnerable. I had him kneel before me and give my feet some attention. After some kissing up and down my legs, I wanted him to take off my shoes and lick my toes. His tongue felt great! I wanted to feel his mouth on my pussy. I had him lift my dress and start to lick. The sensation was fantastic! I decided this was going to be awhile, so I had him hand me my magazine so I could look at it while he serviced me. He was working the area so vigorously with his tongue. I could scarcely contain my orgasm. I didn't want it to stop so quickly though, so I told him to slow down. I tried to keep my mind on the article but it was just too exquisite. I looked down at his head buried in my crotch. I was wetter than I had been in awhile. I moved my foot along between his legs as he continued to lick my pussy. My lips were on fire and I could feel myself being drawn over the edge. I felt him licking and sucking my clit and I could not hold back any longer. I moaned and moved my pussy ever closer to his mouth as he lapped up my juices. I then had him move away and I told him, "that was it for tonight". He wanted more, but I just couldn't let him think that I was going to let him have his way!! I hope he remembers that I am the mistress and he will be at my beck and call!!

bondage rope harness

2008-03-10T07:10:00.000-07:00

A bondage rope harness, sometime also referred to as a bondage web, rope web, rope dress or karada, is a bondage

technique involving the tying of an intricate structure of rope around the body in a complex web-like fashion.

Similar in effect to a leather bondage harness, a bondage rope harness is not in itself normally used to bind a person, but it does apply pressure over the area bound and can be used as a securing point for other bondage techniques, including suspension bondage. It is not normally used to bind the limbs but you can bind the arms into the harness by simply going around the arms not under, as shown in the picture. A rope dress is often used with, or integrated with, a crotch rope and/or a shinju ("pearl") breast harness.

A rope dress typically takes around 10-15 m of rope to tie, and involves multiple passes of rope from front to back around the body to build up the characteristic diamond-shaped rope pattern, typically starting from a rope halter (as in the illustration) and moving down the body. In some cases, a rope harness may extend beyond the torso, into diamond-patterned webs that extend down the length of the arms or legs.

The Japanese term karada means simply "body". Traditionally, a distinction was made between kikkou ("turtle-shell" pattern; hexagonal) and hishi (diamond) patterned ties, although many modern sources just use the term kikkou to refer to any rope body harness.

Mistress Ursela and her best friend

2008-03-10T07:05:00.000-07:00

Mistress Ursela and her best friend
Ursela and Marcy have become some pretty good friends of mine. Their lust for life as well as their lifestyle have really struck a chord within me. I decided to show them a neat little place I found a while back, essentially an abandoned building that somehow still has electricty. While I don't divulge the location of this awesome little respite from reality.

Couples and bondage

2008-03-10T06:38:00.000-07:00

The fact that mainstream ‘high street’ adult shops find it worthwhile to also stock some bondage equipment suggests that some otherwise ‘vanilla’ couples incorporate elements of bondage into their sex lives at some point in their relationships. Leaving aside those couples who are themselves part of the BDSM ‘community’, the use of bondage within couples tends to be very different to and separate from that normally associated with BDSM. Couples’ private bondage games largely take place behind closed doors, and constitute foreplay, usually as a prelude to the couple having sex. There may or may not be some elements of dominance and submission involved as part of role play, but sadism and/or masochism rarely play any part unless the couple already have such leanings. This contrasts with activity in the BDSM subculture, where the emphasis is often more on bondage for its own sake, frequently ending in masturbation only, or indeed involving no sexual contact at all. These differences can lead to misunderstanding if couples who have tried private bondage games encounter the BDSM subculture. Trusting couples can't understand the need for safe-words, while the members of the subculture can't understand why couples mainly see bondage as a part of sexual intercourse.

Bondage within couples usually involves one partner being voluntarily tied-up or put into restraints (i.e. bound / cuffed / spread-eagled etc) by the other, who then either sexually pleasures the tied partner (using manual masturbation, oral sex, vibrating sex toys etc.); or has sex with them while they are restrained, or of course both. The erotic appeal is often in the form of feedback from the writhing / struggles / vocalizations etc of the tied partner. The tied partner may derive pleasure from being in a largely ‘helpless’ predicament in the hands of a trusted partner, and the other may enjoy the mild domination involved in having their partner in that predicament. Either way, many established couples find playing bondage games relationship-affirming, as they both require and imply a level of trust between the partners that is not normally found within more casual relationships, as well as being a shared ‘private’ facet of their sex life that most couples prefer to keep just between the two of them.

This form of bondage has its own niche on some internet websites, where images and movies usually depict voluntarily-tied models undergoing inescapable intense sexual pleasuring, rather than any menace, force or pain. Safety rules followed by couples are frequently context - and trust - based. As the tied partner will more often than not be held in a submissive sex position, sex therefore takes place with their pre-agreed consent. For example a still photograph taken out-of-context at that moment would suggest a very different story to that of a consensual sex game / mutual rape fantasy enactment etc.

Stunning kinky babes

2008-03-06T05:07:00.000-08:00

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Her pictures are stunning, however you do have hours upon hours upon hours of video to enjoy as well, Master joined up to the site and so I’ve been lucky enough to look around and enjoy the spectacle that is Kinky Zee. I’ve been locked in chastity for about a week now, and upon entering this site my body simply could not handle it…I’ve had 2 orgasms through a chastity device - without even being able to touch myself!

What is S&M

2008-02-28T02:45:00.000-08:00

Although we’ll be concentrating more on bondage than S&M, we’ll still give you the basics to whet your appetite for this erotic practice. S&M is growing in popularity because of fetish gatherings and S&M soirees.

People bring along whips, paddles, canes and nipple clamps to act out their S&M fantasies with their partner in front of a small crowd, or with a willing participant who’s looking for an S&M buddy. These fetish parties can be excellent fun as well as a great way to see modern S&M in action.

Whips and paddles, etc, are all designed to help you and your partner straddle that pain/pleasure divide with varying degrees. Exactly how much pain you cause to one another is something you must discuss beforehand and try out through safe experimentation.

Pain is an incredibly intense sensation, which involves the release of endorphins to increase your orgasm to unbelievable heights, but it must be done properly while respecting the threshold of your partner and what he/she finds bearable.

If you and your partner want to try your hand at some light-hearted S&M, load up on spanking paddles such as the Sportsheets Love Hearts, Love or Slut Spanking Paddles and lightly spank each other's bottoms or other erogenous areas lightly to begin with, eventually building up the vigour of each spank.

You could also indulge in some pleasurable whipping with the Sportsheets Rubber Whip, Joyce Jones Cat O Nine-tails whip, the Dildo Whip (which sports a handy six-inch dildo) and the extremely naughty Hand Whip that will a kinky imprint on your lover's backside!

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2008-02-28T01:28:00.000-08:00

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Female domination

2008-02-27T02:00:00.000-08:00

Femdom, or female dominance, refers to BDSM activities where the dominant partner is female; the submissive partner may be of either sex. A female dominant is sometimes called a domme , femdomme, domina, or dominatrix. In the English speaking world, "Mistress" is by far the most common dominatrix title, while in most of continental Europe, the most common titles are, and some are etymologically related, Maitresse, Maid, Maidress, Matress, Mother, Mate, Madre, or "Domina."

Femdom activities may draw on all areas of BDSM. Feminization and strap-on dildo play are common activities, as well as panty fetishism and boot worship. Cuckolding is also an area of female dominance.

Erotic humiliation can focus on the inadequacy of a male's penis, demoting it to a plaything for the dominatrix, over which the male has no real control. Related femdom activities include ballbusting, cock and ball torture (CBT), verbal humiliation, forced chastity, orgasm denial, and forced homosexuality (in which a dominant female forces a heterosexual male to engage in homosexual acts for her amusement, or as part of feminization)

Many participants in this lifestyle conform to the Safe, sane and consensual and RACK models prevalent in the BDSM Community.

Light female domination scenarios may involve ageplay, erotic spanking, cunnilingus and body worship, especially foot worship and ass worship. Heavier and more intense female domination scenarios may involve facesitting or smothering, which tend to focus on the sub giving the dominant female oral pleasure, or the dominant female performing anal sex on the sub using a strap-on dildo (see pegging). Other forms of more intense female domination can include face slapping, hair pulling, caning, heavy torture, dripping hot wax on the genitals and heavy whipping. For these purposes, note the issue of legal consent which may or may not represent a defense to criminal liability for any injuries caused.

In extreme scenarios, there is a focus on exchange of bodily fluids and total forfeit of rights from the slave (TPE), and acts may involve spitting domination or watersports (also known as golden showers). Some dominant women expect to be served orally during their menstrual periods, a practice that is known as having a sub earn his "red wings".

BDSM Symbol

2008-02-21T06:28:00.000-08:00

BDSM- and fetish movements have spread widely in western societies' everyday life by different factors as avant-garde fashion, Rap, Hip-Hop, Heavy Metal, goth subculture and Science Fiction-TV series, and are often not consciously connected with their BDSM roots by many people. The use of Piercings is not scene typical anymore. While it was mainly bound to the Punk- and BDSM-subcultures in the 1990's, it has spread into wide parts of the western populations today.

The Leather Pride flag is a symbol for the Leather subculture and also widely used within BDSM. In continental Europe the Ring of O is wide spread among BDSM-Practitioners. The Triskelion, while quite common in the Anglo-Saxon communities, is less common in Europe. It has significantly higher degree of "signal impact" than the ring which is also common in Goth subculture and widely sold as bling jewelry.

Sadomasochism

2008-02-21T06:25:00.000-08:00

The term "Sadomasochism" is derived from the words "Sadism" and "Masochism" . In the context of consensual sexual activities, sadism and masochism are not strictly accurate terms; there is a significant difference from the medical or psychological usage of both terms. Sadomasochism refers to the physical aspects of BDSM. Sadism describes sexual pleasure derived by inflicting pain, degradation, or humiliation on another person. On the other hand, the masochist enjoys being bound, spanked or suffering within the consensual scenario. Sadomasochists do not enjoy causing or receiving pain in other situations (e.g. accidental injury, medical procedures). Discipline often incorporates sadomasochistic aspects. Sadomasochism is practiced in isolation relatively rarely, although certain practices BDSM can be performed solo, such as self-bondage and autoerotic asphyxia, but such practices can be dangerous resulting injury or death.

Historical Methods of Torture

2008-02-20T04:31:00.000-08:00

Tied in a Sack with Animals - A favorite practice in Ancient Rome. The frightened animals would go into a frenzy and tear the person and each other apart

Torn Apart Between Two Trees - Two trees would be pulled down so they would come together from opposite directions. One arm and leg would be tied to one tree, the other arm and leg to the other tree. Then, let go of the trees.

Torn Apart by Horses - A person is attached to four horses, one to each limb of the body. The horses then pull in oppostie directions, so that the person will become dismembered. Not a very effective method unless certain tendons in the limbs are pre-cut. Similar in effect to the rack.

Water Death - Person is forced to drink water until death occurs from distention and rupturing of the stomach.

Beheading by Axe or Sword - An executioner, usually hooded, chops off the person's head. In England more likely to be regarded as a 'humane' form of death reserved for the nobility while the 'common' people went to the gallows.

Beating to Death - For example when American slaves were beaten to death by their masters until they died, often using heavy bullwhips that cut right to the bone.

Boiling Alive - Intensely painful way of killing people, popular in the Middle Ages

Buried Alive - Widely used around the world throughout the ages. For example, in India they buried women in sand up to their necks, then left them, head emerged only, to bake in the sun.

Red butts technique

2008-02-18T00:58:00.000-08:00

Red butts technique.

The scene begins with the spanked standing at the right of the punisher. Make her take position on your lap by herself, or help her by grabbing her right wrist with your left hand and giving her a tug forward for making her fall in place. As very little effort is necessary to make her fall when her thighs hit yours, she will feel overpowered and dominated.

The spanked should rest with all her weight on the lap of the spanker. Depending on her height, her hands and feet can be on the air, or just touching the floor. If the spanked is a male, his penis should rest firmly on your thighs, pointing downward and to the left (unless his reaction to the scene precludes this).

Your left hand should rest on the small of the back of the spanked, or grabbing her waist. Your left elbow should rest higher on the spanked’s back, if possible between the shoulder blades, for pining her down. Even if we show the hands of the spanked hanging, probably the left hand will grab the leg of the chair for stability. If at any moment her right arm flies back for protection, grab it with your left hand and hold it at the waist or the small of her back.
If her hands become a problem, you could hold both of the punished hands on her back, after binding them is necessary.
If her legs try come up, a couple of hard slaps on the thighs should be all that is needed to bring them down fast.

The buttocks will be better presented if your right leg is a little higher than your left is, maybe resting your right toes on the floor and your heel on the leg of the chair. A box, a brick or a short piece of 2”x 4” wood under your right heel will help to your comfort if you plan to spank for a long time.

The position seems simple, but as you know if you have been spanked, the spanker is out of balance and with very little support, so it is difficult for her to get free of your hold, no matter how much she wriggles. She is actually almost defenseless.

Sometimes the position with the head hanging down makes the punished a little dizzy. Should this happen, modify the position making her upper body rest on another chair, or using a couch or the edge of a bed.

If the spanked is bigger or much stronger than the spanker, the position can be modified by making her rest on your left knee, trapping her legs with your right one. In this variation, the spanked should rest somewhat diagonally, with her head at the side of the chair, for improving her buttock’s positioning. It has a drawback (?), which is that the left hip of the punished will rub against very sensible parts of your anatomy.

Hang her up side down

2008-02-09T05:13:00.000-08:00

Eris Aurum decides to kneel Part 2
The second installment of Eris' Master coming back to town - he takes her to one of the warehouses he owns in the area and has some fun with her - at her expense! Its rare to see so much emotion through one's eyes - but here we caught a soul coming to terms with itself through the eyes of this amazing slave.

What is BDSM

2008-02-09T05:09:00.000-08:00

BDSM is term used to describe two or three sexual fetish activities.
There are three major areas that are encompassed in the term BDSM.
They are :
Bondage and Discipline (B&D) = BD
Dominance and Submission (D/s,) = DS
Sadism and Masochism, Sadomasochism (S/M, S&M) = SM

sut a little more precise definition:

BDSM: A composite acronym for "B&D" (bondage & discipline); "D&S"
(dominance & submission); and "S&M" (sadomasochism). Used to refer
to any consensual activities or lifestyles between adults which include some
or all of these things. The term "BDSM" is used in a general sense to describe
any situation or practice which includes erotic power exchange, dominance and
submission, pain play, bondage, sensation play, or anything related to these.

Webster's Dictionary:

Bondage: "A state of being bound usually by compulsion; servitude or subjugation
to a controlling person or force"

Domination: "supremacy or preeminence over another; exercise of mastery
or preponderant influence"

Masochism: "A sexual perversion characterized by pleasure in being subjected to pain or humiliation esp. by a love object; pleasure in being abused or dominated"

Sadism: "A sexual perversion in which gratification is obtained by the infliction of physical or mental pain on others; delight in cruelty"

Sadomasochism: "The derivation of pleasure from the infliction of physical or
mental pain either on others or on oneself"

Submission: "An act of submitting to the authority or control of another"

preview video

2008-01-31T02:53:00.000-08:00

BDSM Lesbian

2008-01-18T23:32:00.000-08:00

Janice and Michel are two bdsm lesbian that are in extreme lesbian sex. Michel tie the neck of Janice as she lisk her nice and juicy pussy and use a strap dildo to fuck janice pussy.

BDSM Couple

2008-01-18T21:24:00.000-08:00

This two BDSM couple sandra and nick are playing the role of a master and a slave a real bdsm couple in an extreme submissive sex. sandra tie the head of nick with a metal chain as she let her slave lick her tits and pussy. sandra tie nick and engaged in an extreme bdsm submissive sex playing the role of slave and master.

Mistress Ursula and her best friend / slave

2007-11-23T06:20:00.001-08:00

Marcy was not told about our presence with a video camera and we were greeted with some genuine panic and anger as we walked in the door...We were asked to turn off the cameras (but Mistress Ursula was on the ball and saw the red lights still on but just pointing at the floor!

First BDSM scene

2007-11-23T06:00:00.001-08:00

Applicant Profile
Age: 24
Sign: Aries
Height: 5'8''

Fears / Current Limits: Applicant is uncomfortable with hoods, small spaces. Harbors some anxiety towards shooting in unknown circumstances but willing to move forward.

Strengths: Enjoys canes. Loves her pussy and ass stretched. Open-minded, turned on by anonymous sex, inter-racial sex. Claims to be a very good cock sucker. She is intelligent, well read, and talented in areas other than sex and BDSM.

Weaknesses: Poor verbal skills, very inexperienced with BDSM, poor understanding of Master / slave power exchange.

Experience: First BDSM scene on Waterbondage, Feb. 2006. One previous boy/girl scene. Very limited BDSM experience.

Current Status: Unowned novice.

Initial Observations:Applicant maintains good eye contact and appears attentive and engaging. Good candidate for the test shoot - she is new, relatively inexperienced, and sexually adventurous. Considers herself a feminist, and claims to be 'very controlling' in her personal life. Applicant indicates she is eager to understand how someone allows themselves to be called a 'slave'.

Recommendations: Test her reactions to pain with intense predicament bondage, cane and flogger. Test and begin to improve verbal skills by tying her up, stuffing her mouth with hard cock and electrocuting her pussy, only offering relief when she delivers dirty talk. Cover her with come, then hose her down and scrub her with harsh brushes before plugging her ass and pussy and locking them in with a chastity belt. Send her across town to her quarters for the key. Invade the applicant's quarters unannounced in the middle of the night. Tie her up and fuck her mercilessly while probing for new weaknesses and strengths. Leave her fully used and covered in come and rope marks with a 9 am call time.

Extra Studies: Reading assignment on the principal of obedience.

Dominance & Submission,

2007-11-23T04:47:00.001-08:00

In the context of BDSM, bondage involves people being tied up or otherwise restrained for pleasure. Bondage is usually, but not always, a sexual practice. The paraphilia of being sexually aroused by bondage is sometimes known as vincilagnia .Studies in the U.S. have shown that about three quarters of all men find the idea of bondage to be erotic; many women do as well. As with any study of sexual thoughts and behavior, the available studies are not well controlled and the best studies are now out of date

BDSM is the collective term for a group of related sexual preferences common in literature, which are sometimes less accurately designated "Sadomasochism" or colloquially as "S and M" or "S/M".

The term "BDSM" is an acronym derived from the English-language terms Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission , Sadism & Masochism , and describes a spectrum of behavior, usually sexual, which includes dominance and submission, punishment, masochism and bondage play, among other things.

Bondage

2007-11-23T04:02:00.001-08:00

Applicant Profile
Age: 18
Sign:Cancer
Disposition: Brat

Fears / Current Limits: Other than no anal sex, she claims to have none outside of shooting rules

Strengths: Applicant appears familiar with BDSM and power exchange and claims to be 'able to process pain really well'. She seems to possess an
adventurous and enthusiastic personality.

Weaknesses: Applicant has trouble with the cane and single tail whip. She cannot control her breathing in corsetts and tight bondage.
Weak anal skills, fidgets, difficulty standing still for punishment. She is very ticklish. Applicant claims to be 'a very bratty submissive'.

Experience: Some experience in public BDSM scene,
limited commercial BDSM and mainstream porn films

Current Status: unowned

Initial Observations: Applicant describes herself as 'the little kid who tests boundries' and says she 'needs someone (to top her) who will not back down'. She sounds like a classic argumentative, bratty submissive.
Through the interview she fidgets nervously, holds eye contact sporadicly, and rambles on quite insescently.

She does seem excited by the prospect of training, and this is accompanied by an apparent understanding of basic BDSM philosophy. She is intellengent and nerdy with an inherent cuteness that is aching to be developed.

Recommendations:
Gag her right away to teach the value of succinct speech. Deliver an over the knee spanking to test her composure, control, and ability to process pain. Impose a few strict rules for her to break and correct her with the cane. Watch her squirm and attempt to teach her to take a punishment properly.

Fuck her mouth and pussy with a dick on a stick till she begs to orgasm, then stuff her mouth with a hard cock to suck off. Come on her face, rate her blowjob skills and send her to her quarters for the evening to do her homework.

Perform a surprise inspection of her quarters late at night. Blindfold her and bring in William. Do not allow her to see him for the entire evening while she fucks and sucks him for our amusement.