Femdon Article

Female dominance (or Femdom) refers to BDSM activities where the dominant partner is female; the submissive partner may be of either sex. It can also refer to relationships that do not self-identify as BDSM, yet remain based on consensual power exchange or dominance and submission, with a female leading the overall dynamics of the relationship. Another common intepretation is to describe an entire belief system of gender discrimination associated with Female Supremacy. Female Supremacy is based on concepts such as the female being biologically or spiritually of a higher form or incarnation then the male.
Typical activities denoting female domination include forced feminization of a male partner, strap-on dildo penetration (also known as pegging), as well gender-neutral practices of domination such as boot worship. Consensual cuckolding is also used as a source of erotic humiliation, focusing on the inadequacy of a the male partner's penis. The overall goal is to extract sensual pleasure from the submission of a partner, which may be demoted to a plaything for the domme

Light female domination scenarios may involve various forms of orgasm control, such as tease and denial and tie and tease, as well as ageplay, erotic spanking, cunnilingus and body worship, especially foot worship and ass worship.

Female dominance of eris aurum

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Concept of CBT (cock ball torture)

Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a sexual activity involving torture of the male genitals. This may involve directly painful activities, such as wax play, genital spanking, squeezing, ball busting, genital flogging, urethral play, tickle torture, erotic electrostimulation or even kicking. The recipient of such activities may receive direct physical pleasure via masochism, or emotional pleasure through knowledge that the play is pleasing to a sadistic Dominant.

Ball stretcher

A ball stretcher is a sex toy that is fastened around a man in order to elongate the scrotum and provide a feeling of weight pulling the testicles away from the body.

While leather stretchers are most common, other models are made of steel rings that are fastened with screws; causing additional uncomfortable weight to the wearer. The length of the stretcher may vary from 1-4 inches, and the steel models can weigh as much as five pounds

Humbler

A humbler is a BDSM physical restraint device used to restrict the movement of a submissive male participant in a BDSM scene.

The humbler consists of a testicle cuff device that clamps around the base of the scrotum, mounted in the centre of a bar that passes behind the thighs at the base of the buttocks. This forces the wearer to keep his legs folded forward, as any attempt to straighten the legs even slightly pulls directly on the scrotum, causing from considerable discomfort to extreme pain.

Parachute

A parachute is a small collar, usually made from leather, which fastens around the scrotum, and from which weights can be hung. Conical in shape, with three or four short chains hanging beneath, to which weights can be attached, its resemblance to its larger namesake, and the source of its own name, is obvious

Used as part of cock and ball torture within a BDSM relationship, the parachute provides a constant drag, and squeezing effect on the man's testicles, considerable weights of 3–5 kg can be suspended, especially during bondage. Smaller weights can be used when the man is free to move, when the swinging effect of the weight can restrict sudden movements, as well as providing a visual stimulus for the dominant partner.

Testicle cuff

A testicle cuff is a ring-shaped device around the scrotum between the body and the testicles such that when closed it does not allow the testicles to pass through it. A common type has two connected cuffs; one for the scrotum and one for the base of the penis. They are one of many different gadgets for restraining the male genitalia. Also a standard padlock may be locked around the scrotum, and without the key the man will not be able to remove it.

Some men enjoy the feeling of being 'owned', and some people enjoy the feeling of 'owning' their partners. Making the man wear testicle cuffs gives a sense that his sexual organs belong to his partner. Equally, there is a certain level of humiliation inherent in the devices, by which some people are sexually aroused. Finally, the cuffs may form part of a sexual fetish of the wearer or his partner.

Slave girl get punished by ropes

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Female Domination

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Slave or submisive

As I wrote in a previous post, I was feeling lost. I knew my purpose was to serve and please him, but I didn't know how to fulfill that purpose. I needed to know how to serve him better, how to be what he wanted me to be... heck, I needed to know what he wanted me to be. I needed guidance and direction, and most of all control.

So, Griz and I sat down and talked about things… where we wanted to go with our D/s and what each of us wanted out of it. And here's where we ended up: the goal is for me to completely surrender my will to him, to put myself under his control 24/7. Ultimately, our goal is to have a total power exchange relationship. This won't happen for us overnight. I need to learn to trust him more and obey him even when it doesn't suite me. I don't want to be his sometime submissive, I want to be his submissive all the time... which brings me to a topic I've been struggling with recently...

Submissive or slave?

When Griz and I first talked about moving toward a TPE relationship, he phrased it as a "Master/slave" dynamic. And I hesitated, because I've never seen myself as a slave, and I like identifying myself as a submissive. I had thought of a slave is more of an object and while I love the idea of Griz treating me like an object some of the time, I honestly don't see how we could keep up that dynamic all the time and still have a loving marriage. Slave also has sexual connotations to me, like sex slave, whereas submission is about all of it - the sex and the service. I feel like his slave during heavy play, but not when I'm fixing him dinner. I realize this is a highly charged subject about which many knowledgeable slaves and submissives and masters have written about, so I'll just preface this by saying these are only my opinions.

To get to the bottom of my feelings about being his slave, he gave me assignment to learn more about M/s by reading online and talking with a couple of other slaves or submissives. My good friend, padme, and my new friend martha were kind enough to listen to me and answer my questions. They were both so patient with me and thoughtful in their responses- thank you so much! My basic question was, what is the difference between a slave and a submissive? Both padme and martha said they started out as submissives, and eventually became slaves, and they both characterized being a slave as a more intense form of their submission... which is what I read on some of the websites I visited. Some people view being a slave as an extreme form of submission, others view slavery as something completely different from submission. There seem to be a lot of different opinions and definitions out there. One of the main differences between a slave and a submissive seems to be limits. Many of the websites I read said that submissives work within a framework of limitations, whereas slaves have no limits. But padme brought up a good point in that most (if not all) people have some limits, even if it's only one, even slaves. Are there slaves out there who would kill themselves or someone else if their Master commanded it? Maybe, but I think there are very few of them. So, I don't think a slave can be defined by limits, what someone will or won't do. After talking with padme and martha, I think being a slave is more of a state of mind than a set of actions. I think being a slave is an extreme, much more intense form of submission, but still fundamentally submission.

So with all that being said, does it matter what words Griz and I choose to define our relationship? I don't think it does. I am HIS, His good girl, His submissive, His slave, His lover, His friend, His (almost) wife. That's all that matters.

Slaves symbols and rituals

Various forms of symbolism are sometimes used to affirm the owner/slave relationship, such as wearing the owner's collar, being registered in a slave register, adopting (sometimes legally changing to) a name chosen by the owner, or engaging in a public declaration or ritualized ceremony of some type. Some people draw up a slave contract that defines the relationship in explicit detail. These contracts have no legal weight and are not intended to be used in a court of law, but are an understanding and agreement between the individuals.

In some traditional rituals, after signing a slave contract, many people celebrate the commitment to the relationship with a collaring ceremony, which can be simple or elaborate and friends are usually invited. The slave then wears a collar, which symbolizes their status. The collar may be an actual piece of neckwear, or may be a bracelet or other piece of jewellery that symbolizes their slavery. These collars are generally never removed unless or until the relationship is dissolved, although some slaves exchange a formal collar for a more subdued (or less obtrusive) one for work or other social situations.

Lifestyle BDSM Couple

Mistress Aurum comes home to a clean house …her Slave is dedicated to pleasing her every whim…and please he does as he is a housemaid, a pussy eater, a foot rest, a shoe cleaner, and finally left to kneel in front of a couch for the entire night before Mistress forgot to tell him he could move before she goes to bed! Mistress Eris is such a nice mistress she always pleasure her slave giving him what a real submissive slave really want but the best of all mistress eris is so gorgeous and hot that if you were a real submissive slave you would always wanted to make mistress eris to be your regular mistress that will pleasure you with her dominant techniques and methods. o how do i envy this slave for he has mistress eris by his side dominating him and restraining him from orgasm when they make bdsm sex.

slave tied and abuse

I just love being tied and abuse by master and i enjoy every moment of our bdsm lifestyle for i could never seen a beautiful life and imagine my life without my master. Master just tied me to an abandoned basement and as i am brutally abuse i intensely waiting for master to pleasure me a give me one hell of a bdsm sex for i love to be fuck and abuse brutally.

BDSM in our daily lives

Personally I my self love to see or watch a great BDSM movies i love to see real life couple do BDSM stuff and i also like the idea of a BDSM Lifestyle were you can see a slave and master or a mistress. There are a lot of BDSM movie in the internet that has a real life BDSM couple. As a watch many BDSM movie i always notice one thing, not all people are dominant some love to be dominated that is why i realize that in a personal life BDSM really exist in a couple even an ordinary couple BDSM exist within them weather they accept it or not That Means BDSM is not a unique thing that only few people do but it is done by any other ordinary couple in this earth. For example a couple is engage in an ordinary sex weather we admit it or not we pleasure your partner and by pleasuring her or him you sometimes do stuff and the other partner is just lying and enjoying it self so it means your dominatimg your partner you dictate the tempo so that she or he could pleasure it self that is BDSM right dominating partner to make her or him pleasure and sensual. This are the fact that made BDSM as a regular habit in any couple.